Married? I need help. Quick....

[K3 Chris Onwiler]

Dunno what to tell ya, dude.  I gave up EVERYTHING to get married.  We were pretty poor then.  It took eight years, but over that time I bought a house, got a few bikes, went a few places...  Then I went racing.  She calls racing "The Mistress."

We've been married 13 years now, and last night she came in from her garden as it started to rain, mixed us a shaker of martinis and brought it out to the porch, sat down beside me and said, "I love you!"

[EX#996]

Dunno what to tell ya, dude.  I gave up EVERYTHING to get married.  We were pretty poor then.  It took eight years, but over that time I bought a house, got a few bikes, went a few places...  Then I went racing.  She calls racing "The Mistress."

We've been married 13 years now, and last night she came in from her garden as it started to rain, mixed us a shaker of martinis and brought it out to the porch, sat down beside me and said, "I love you!"

Yep,

Pretty much the same here.  Paul was drag racing at the time.  We got married at 21, struggled the first number of years being dirt broke (boy do I have some stories I could tell about some places we lived  :o).  Had Renee and then in 2001, we started racing again.

Yeah, sometimes Paul and I bitch at each other, but neither of us can imagine being without the other (no matter what Paul says  ;)).  It will be 16 years this October.  

Dawn   :)

[Thingy]

My buddy said that he never new what true happiness was until he go married.  But then it was too late.  :D

[tigerblade]

I read that married men live longer than single men, but they're also more willing to die.   ;D


It can be a wonderful thing and I'm sure I'll go through it again someday if the right one comes along.  

[EX#996]

I read that married men live longer than single men, but they're also more willing to die.   ;D


 

LOL!!!!

[MadXX]

They also say only married men can truely appreciate the life they no longer have.

Disclaimer:
I know my wife reads this board so this does not pertain to any woman I may be married to,  nor to women who's initials are JB or ones who are cool wives who let their husbands spend a lot of money on on hobby which can cause serious injury or death while her bathroom remodeling project is put on hold.

[G1K@work]

You tell your wife to be that she can not go shopping between now and the wedding, what if she should trip in the mall and twist her ankle?  There is so many what if...

Dude, just go racing.  Or compromise for one or two events instead of the total amount you planned.  If it's iomportant to you, it should be important to her and you both should reach some sore of ground in the middle.


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[TZDeSioux]

It can be a wonderful thing and I'm sure I'll go through it again someday if the right one comes along.  

awww.. Kris.. i'm sure the right dude will come along soon enough  ;D

[tigerblade]

awww.. Kris.. i'm sure the right dude will come along soon enough  ;D

Oh he has, schnookums.   :-*

[cornercamping]

I'm taking the plunge in july I feel lucky I only have to miss one round (BFR 07/17/07). I know how you feel I have had to cut back on my budget due to an extrodenarily expensive reception. The one thing I do know is I will not let the future Mrs. read this thread.(she doesn't need any Ideas) Good luck with whatever happens. Hopefully you will have a happy life together & you make enough money @ the reception to buy some new racing goodies!! ;)

So your on death row too  :o  Well, atleast I'm not the only one.    ;D Could be worse.  She could be the boss of the family  :o

[am_#65_john_deere]

just tell her you are going racing and that is it.

the wedding will go ahead regardless.

i went to gingerman last year the day before i flew to ireland for my wedding and guess what,,,,,,,,,,,

i crashed at gingerman,,,,,,,,still got married,,,,,,,wife forgot all about it.

nuff said.

[cornercamping]

just tell her you are going racing and that is it.

the wedding will go ahead regardless.

i went to gingerman last year the day before i flew to ireland for my wedding and guess what,,,,,,,,,,,

i crashed at gingerman,,,,,,,,still got married,,,,,,,wife forgot all about it.

nuff said.

Wanna call my fiance for me and you tell her.   ::) ;D