This message is for Jewelled.... But everyone is more than welcome to read it...
I would really love to speak with you. I think we definately have something in common!!!
I have known "T" since 1992. We dated from 92' to 98'. I am sure that none of you know this but we had two children together. I also have proof that they are his although he didn't deny they were his and signed paternity papers without question so I didn't have to do the DNA thing. I am not sure how old your child/children are, but my daughter turned 14 this year, and my son turned 10. So I understand the "child without a father" clause all too well. He has not been around since I was pregnant with his son so in Oct. that will be 11 years.
One thing that I do know... is that he was raised by his grandmother. His parents are NOT dead. His father walked out on him the way he does with his children, and his mother gave him up for adoption to her mother (his grandmother) because she couldnt handle him. I know this a little more factually only because I have met some of the ppl that knew him when he lived in VA beach that had actually met his grandmother.
I also want to let everyone know that a lot of his problems are because he is Bi-polar and not treated. It explains a lot of his behaviors. His habitual cheating (oh god I don't even wanna start on that subject), his lying, his stealing... they are common with Bi-polar ppl that are not treated. His son (my son) is also bi-polar, and even though he has never met his father, he acts just like him.... it is almost scary!
So on that note, if you would like to contact me, let me know and I will be glad to speak with you. I feel bad for all these kids that walking around (god only knows how many there really are) And I feel bad for you that he had done the things he did to you. He also stole from me, but I was able to get him back, so it was all good for me.
I promise there are no hard feelings in this post... I would just like a little more info if possible.