I'm sorry for your loss, but really, had you let this go and not commented, nobody would be thinking or talking about it today.
And if you let it go and don't reply, within a few hours it'll probably be off the first page and continue to get buried deeper and deeper from existence. Just let it go.
Agreed. Not much action on this forum like years ago, and that probably goes for many forums, for that matter. Amazing that there's a core group of regular posters from years ago that are online today.
Let it go.